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[quote=Anonymous]OP, first, I am very sorry you are going through this. With this acknowledgment of your pain out of way, DO NOT tell your wife you want to work on the marriage. Even if you feel that way. Keep it to yourself. Two basic reasons: a) first, she will lose whatever respect for you she had, and feel a bit disgusted even that you would get over it so quickly. b) you, yourself, will in a couple of weeks feel a surge of humiliation and it will come out in all kinds of ugly ways. Don't tell her. If fact, the less you talk to her right now, the better. Only talk about the kids and joint projects. She needs some distance and some major uncertainty about which way things will go. This is a long game. [/quote]
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