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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Speaking honestly here as an attractive woman, a former model. It IS more than looks.

Looks may be the first thing that gets attention, yes, but only up to a point.

I am an attractive woman. I have a nice face and a great figure. But I'm eccentric and often a bitch, being perfectly honest here. I've had zero trouble getting first and sometimes second dates, but a lot of trouble getting a guy to stick around. I'm the woman that men want to sleep with or even cheat on their significant others with, but I'm not the one they want as a long term girlfriend or wife. When I let on that I'm interested in something more than sex, the guy backs away every time.

And I know full well what I need to work on and why this happens, why I attract @rseholes or why nice guys won't stay with me. I'm too self centered. I'm too weirdly into my own things. I talk too much. I'm high-strung and annoying. I'm not a "chill girl" who is easygoing and "cool with whatever."

At the end of the day, I am skinny and attractive, and have no long term relationships to speak of.

The girls next door, who dress casually, wear less makeup, might have a few flaws according to beauty conventions, may carry a few extra pounds - they have boyfriends, fiances, and husbands.

Just the truth.[/quote]

Guy here.  Agree with this.  Men would probably want to hook up with this PP, but it takes more than outside looks to wife somebody up.  Having said that, men (as do women) generally still have an appearance threshold in terms of settling down, which means it remains important but it also get throw in with other factors such as personality compatability, hobbies, etc. [/quote]

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