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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women vastly over-analyze men.  He cheated for the same reason a single man has sex.  Because it's a biological drive to do it.  He just lost his will-power to say no.  It's not some existential act, it's just a fleeting belief he can do it and get away with it.

It's not an excuse fo rhis behavior, he made a vow, he should keep it.  But to ask hi to try and figure out why he did it is like asking a hungry person why they ate.[/quote]

That’s bullshit.[/quote]

I understand why you think that but it's not. Sex is one of the ways I stay connected to my wife. Between us, it is an expression of love (and one of the ways we express love). That said, I have slept with many women where love was never a factor and never on the horizon. Some men are better at suppress the natural urge and have better self control but, for many men, an affair is not an expression of love for another woman. It's simply primal. The urge is almost always there. It's the level of risk taking and maturity that determines the outcome.[/quote]

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