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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP,

Ignore the nasties on here.  They think that because your relationship began under less-than-ideal circumstances, you should do penance and be miserable for the rest of your life.  Ignore them.  You're entitled to happiness and love...and that means you shouldn't have to be terrorized by your husband's son in your own home.

This is a disciplinary issue.  Your husband needs to make clear that that type of language absolutely will not be tolerated in your home.  Eventually your kids will find out about the affair; you can't shield them from that.  But you absolutely can demand that DH's child not use profane and disrespectful language about you in your home.  [/quote]

No, we think the OP is pathetic for taking forever to admit it was an affair, and for her clueless and selfish behavior afterwards.  She is reaping the disrespect and lack of consideration that she sowed.[/quote]

OP doesn’t owe anyone on here an explanation of the circumstances of her current relationship.

You’re just angry that she isn’t sufficiently ashamed.  [/quote]

She is treating the children badly and then complaining that they are unhappy about it.

Sounds like your step-son doesn't really care about your feelings, OP.  Kind of like how little you cared about his.[/quote]

Are you seriously suggesting OP shouldn’t marry the man she loves because he has a child who doesn’t like it???[/quote]

It's not because the child doesn't like it.  It's because she moved much faster than is recommended even for non-cheaters, and isn't parenting appropriately.  [/quote]

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