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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe I'm kind of a jerk, but I would take lots of pictures on of Friend A and Newbie B together and post them on social media, so the wife could see them.

But really, I wouldn't do that.  I'd tell Friend A he can't bring Newbie B, and see no need to reimburse Newbie B for her sunk costs.  When you deceive people and they find out, you can't complain about the out of pocket costs.   [/quote]

I assumed opposite genders than you . . .[/quote]

OP here:
I kept it gender neutral on purpose. I want honest feedback - this is a very real situation. I don't want gender or sexual orientation to play a role in how people view this situation. It's crappy regardless of the genders involved.

Friend C has seen Friend A and Newbie B engage in PDA. Multiple times. Basically, Friend C has been complicit for months (they feel incredibly guilty) and it's about to suck in the rest of the friend group.

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I knew from your post that this isn't a heteronormative couple situation. If it was all guys, no way would a random woman be added to the group, or vice versa. My best guess is that this is a girls trip and . . . girls just wanna have fun.[/quote]

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