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[quote=Anonymous]This is OP. Thanks so much for all the replies. I think the simple answer at this point is that the couple probably doesn't care particularly if the kids are in the wedding -- it's nice for the pics but that's it. And that's fine. A little strange given that this BIL really does love my kids (and they adore him), but his fiancee has only met them maybe four times total and they have a right to make their own decision. But I'm not sure it makes sense to spend all this money to bring the kids. We can walk that back easily without offending anyone. We can also just go forward as planned, and my kids will be disappointed, but will obviously live. I will not send my DH alone to the reception, and I will not make a huge stink about anything. Not worth it, and my DH needs my support this year (MIL passed in the last year). So, we'll look into the possibility of a babysitter at home for three nights, and then weigh our options. [/quote]
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