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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are both now in our early thirties, and we have sex 2-3 times a week. I only really want to about once a week (less when stressed), but I do understand that he has different needs and was used to a different life before me. We are come from similar backgrounds, similar careers, want the same things in life, and are best friends. So far I thought that has been enough to make a wonderful relationship, and the difference in sex drives was minor especially because he proposed, but these responses are terrifying. [/quote]
You are doing fine PP: just keep it up! I suspect you have different needs from your DH, like you probably need to "talk about your day" while he would be content to watch SportsCenter. But if he's a good partner, he understands your needs and makes an effort to meet them on a frequent-enough basis.

And just as you would be unhappy if he started tuning you out of the conversation you need/enjoy, he would be unhappy if you start rejecting him sexually on a regular basis. So there is nothing wrong with having different needs. There is EVERYTHING wrong with dropping your efforts to meet those needs after marriage.[/quote]

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