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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are both now in our early thirties, and we have sex 2-3 times a week. I only really want to about once a week (less when stressed), but I do understand that he has different needs and was used to a different life before me. We are come from similar backgrounds, similar careers, want the same things in life, and are best friends. So far I thought that has been enough to make a wonderful relationship, and the difference in sex drives was minor especially because he proposed, but these responses are terrifying. [/quote]

Most women want sex far less than men, especially in long term relationships and marriages so I wouldn't say you two are doomed.  2x per week is reasonable, and my advice is to make sure one of those times you are into it and fully engaged.

Trust me, most marriages have big libido gaps, sometimes they are permanent sometimes its just for a while when kids are young.  This is partly why infidelity is so common.

That he proposed with his eyes wide open makes me think you will be fine but keep the lines of communication open.

BTW, this thread is about people who stopped having sex, not those who do it once per week.  6x per month is statistically average.[/quote]

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