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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - have you ever planned a wedding? First of all, a person is person when counting for catering costs. I recently had a "no kids" wedding, but made exceptions for my niece/nephew and younger brothers who were in the ceremony, and I had to FIGHT with the caterer to get them out of the head count for the bar fees (they aren't 21 - how are you going to charge me for them drinking?!) So at a bare minimum, your kids are costing the couple money in addition to likely being a nuisance (to the couple, to other guests, to their own parents).

And hate to say it, but if you're not part of the "exception," you're not important enough to the couple to be there if you chose not to attend. So it's your call - the couple is going to enjoy the wedding they want either way. [/quote]

Ugh.  This whole wedding thing is so ugly.  [b]Why even invite people who you deem "not important enough"  in any way?[/b]  What's next, sell tickets to your wedding?  Blah.  [/quote]

I'm the PP. It's not that they're not important at all, it's just that if you don't feel like getting a babysitter is worth attending my wedding (therefore deeming ME not important in a way), it's not important enough for me to go out of my way to make an exception for you to have your kids there. I want you there, but I'm not going to stress if you don't come. Sorry![/quote]

I mean, yeah, though. Yeah. That is pretty much it, with you. --NP[/quote]

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