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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you have taken control and shown her who's boss. You're making her dance to your tune now, see how she likes it. [/quote] Oh, tone it down. OP and her husband are setting a reasonable boundary--they will not be showing up to each and every holiday at MIL's home; sometimes, they will be celebrating in their own home, and all are welcome. If OP were taking the hard line that "You're done, MIL! It's our house now and forever!" that would be one thing. That isn't what's going on here.[/quote] I don't get the tone it down comment. OP has shown that she has control over this holiday by sending out invitations well in advance so that there is no question that she wants everyone at her house. She has made it clear to her mother in law that she wants to change things up. Isn't that the message she wants to send? [/quote]
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