Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "wife keeps her name"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a husband of a wife who kept her name. I don't regret marrying her because she makes up for it in other ways but I pretty much resent it, am jealous of men whose wives took their names and hope she will change it some day to have the same last name as our future kids, like other women I know have done or plan to do[/quote] Why don't you change your name, and then your future kids will have the same last name as both you and your wife?[/quote] No matter how many people you pretend to be posting this again and again, it's never going to happen [/quote] I am a woman who changed my name in order to have the same last name as my family. My husband said he would consider changing his name when I asked him about it a few years later. For me, I wanted us to have the same name as our children. I was willing to change my name, but if I thought my husband was the kind of guy who would hold a grudge if I didn't or not even consider changing his name, he wouldn't be my husband. There is so much misogyny on this thread it makes me want to use my maiden name! Usually these threads get taken over by judgy feminists who only want to green light their choice as the feminist choice. I disagree with them but nothing they say makes me like...all these MRA creeps are starting to make me see those judgy b's points. Everyone should MYOB about what other people do and every man should respect his wife's autonomy and allow her to make that decision without undue pressure from his (small if he gives a sh$#) penis. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics