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I know.  I just don't think he'll do it.  He said he would send the emails if I drafted them, or write letters if I told him what to write, but he's not going to talk to his friends in person. He says that I'm making it a bigger deal than it needs to be and I'm just going to make people feel uncomfortable.  I think he wants a letter where he doesn't specifically address lies, but just tells truths, like "DW is a great mom and great wife -- here's our family trip picture."  But, of course all these people are on FB, so some of that, they must already be seeing.

Starting this thread has reopened the wound that I thought was healing, though, too.  I'm not a person with low self-esteem, or at least, I don't think I am. [b] I try to be very fair and trusting in the relationship, especially because I'm naturally a bit jealous, so I work to listen and ignore my own gut.[/b]  And, now I ended up in this mess, and just feel like I must have done something wrong in a prior lifetime.  I feel like I lost all my self-esteem in the past couple weeks.
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I'd like to know why you feel this way?[/quote][/quote]

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