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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know a guy like your husband. Hated his girlfriend, accidentally got her pregnant. Told everyone he couldn't wait until youngest was 18 and he could divorce her. He now has three kids with her...we wish him well, but he made his own bed.[/quote] I know a couple like this too with kids. It makes all their close friends uncomfortable because of the things he's told them and the things they've witnessed (he brings around other women when he hangs out without her).[/quote] I'm the PP who knows this couple. The husband acts like OP's husband. To provide his friends' perspective, many of us just wish they would split up-- because it is extremely uncomfortable. We aren't cool with cheating, we don't like listening to someone bad-mouth their spouse, etc. But it's also clear this couple is beyond counseling/help because it's gone on for years and plenty of people have been suggesting it for years. We don't like being caught in the crosshairs. Oh yeah, the husband sent his friends naked photos of his wife without her permission once...while badmouthing her. His friends were like "PLEASE stop sending this sh*t and just split up. It's not something I want on my phone!"[/quote] :shock: [/quote]
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