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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, start by getting a job. Even if childcare cost eats up a large chunk of what you earn, I think it's a good first step to feeling more like yourself. Insist on it. Your children do NOT need a SAHM, they need a happy functional mom.

As far as your husband... I think you have unrealistic expectations about how easy it is to meet someone new and remarry when you're a 30-something parent of 3 young children. This is anecdotal, but everyone I know who divorced for reasons unrelated to abuse/adultery/addiction and subsequently remarried, has mentioned regretting not trying harder to work things out with spouse #1 - no one is going to be perfect, and when you marry a new person, you take on a whole new set of problems, and you'll be dealing with a blended family on top of everything. Not saying you should stay, just something to consider. [/quote]

When did OP state her goal is to remarry another man?

Some guys are not marriage material not father material. And not because they are violent or abusive, but because they are workaholic, self-centered clueless slobs. If your life would be better and easier without that disrespectful selfish slob around, make the call!  You are definitely not modeling a healthy relationship or effective communication for your kids.[/quote]

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