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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I am not the ominous black cloud person. The kids clearly need such a cloud. The problem is it arrives way too late in the day.[/quote] I agree these kids need a Black Cloud. I also agree it would help if OP got home earlier. But OP can’t do this by herself—her DH needs to be on board. I was the tougher parent with a gaslighting DH, who undermined me when the kids had bad grades and tried to be their “friend” instead of a parent. OP’s DH sounds like the type who clearly communicates his “different values” to their kids. If he doesn’t actually roll his eyes in front of them, then if nothing else the fact that he does nothing to support her sends a clear message to the kids that he disagrees. [/quote]
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