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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if you love doing up your house and entertaining so much, you're going to have to let go of the score keeping, and just be that person who hosts. Do it because you enjoy it. You can't change others, any more than they can turn you into an introvert. Be gratified knowing that people enjoy and look forward to your events. You have been presented with a lot of valid reasons why people don't reciprocate. You could move almost anywhere, and you'd find more people likely to host than you will around here. It's just how it is, due to many factors. And when people make noises about having you over, DO put them on the spot if you really want it to happen. Get out your calendar and name a date you're free. Sometimes people need the nudge. If they waffle, let it drop, and accept it. You have to be reasonably charming and pleasant to get away with this, of course. [/quote]
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