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[quote=Anonymous]OP strikes me as possibly the kind of woman who creates a lot of work that she feels must be done but is unnecessary.

My MIL is a very organized, efficient woman. When DD1 was born, she came to our home to help (she lives abroad). She was very busy all day long. However she was mostly doing stuff that we didn't even consider doing before her arrival. In fact, she created so much additional work that she deemed essential and non-negotiable that we had to work more than before she was helping (she also spent enormous amounts of our money on groceries that were also a non-negotiable).

Some choose chores that are indeed essential. But many are a choice. You don't have to cook every day and when you do there are a lot of choices in terms of complexity, time and cost. The same holds for cleaning, clutter. For example, our house is very tidy but it's not very clean and we don't cook much.

You priorities seem to be having a perfect home, perfect birthday parties etc. Something then must be pushed aside, e.g. sex. You might want to think whether your husband is not helping because he considers those activities as choices you are making. Why do you need to meet all those relatives before birthday? If they are mostly his relatives (as you say) why are you pushing it? [/quote]

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