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[quote=Anonymous]NP - if the OP is above average, looking for same, then he has to realize that the competition is INSANE.  If you are a single woman, professional, bright, petite, pretty, slim, friendly, smart - every date is making themselves out to be a babbling idiot in front of you.  Every. Single. One.  If you are of a subtype that is fetishized (like cute petite Asian), it gets weird FAST

OP, you have to understand - these women are meeting guys who are trying to figure out how to get them to fulfill their every fantasy.  Whether your intentions are more noble than the others, who knows - plenty of people here think they're not - but that's irrelevant.

You going all caveman on them only reinforces the hard press that they are getting from every single guy.  It is a problem you have, but it's reinforced by the type of woman you're seeking to connect with

I would try just being as honest with them as you are being here - yes, you are attracted to a certain type, yes you are looking for something "real", yes you know you can come off not great, yes you know there is no way to distinguish you from every other guy. Don't go beta, just be real - these women are either meeting guys who are all "I'm not worthy of you" or guys who are "I'll tell you anything you want to hear" - they're as tired of it as you are

Change it up for them, that's the only way[/quote]

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