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Reply to "My STBX inherited money in 2004, invested it, and is claiming it is all his"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP's ex. We are sorting things out. It was real close to getting really ugly about two weeks ago -- she has moved out, and she demanded money from me. I said we need a comprehensive agreement. We are working on it. Fortunately, I have the cash (actually in a mutual fund, so not cash cash) to write a check for her equity in the house, and get her off the mortgage. It will be 250K to her, 150K to the bank. I am paying her 1/2 the equity, which is about 500K. [/quote] Please drag out the divorce so you can delay paying her. She gets nothing during this separation period, right? Serves her right for cheating on you. Let her mooch off her boyfriend.[/quote] She gets stuff once we are legally separated. I want this to be over, but not enough to give her what she wants. (she still wants half my cash).[/quote] What changed? I thought the last update was she accepted her attorney's guidance, that she's not entitled and she should take your generous offer.[/quote] I don't know why she decided to be aggressive. she refused the offer, because I had one rule: her BF could not live in the house until DD was not living in the house (unless they were married). This included overnights. I made that a condition to protect DD. She refused, moved out and into her BF's appt. Then, we had another deal, but she refused the deal, and is basically saying she will go away for 2 mil. I am not worried because 1) she has no money right now, and 2) she will not get it legally. I have told her, accept the terms, or in Jan I will file for at-fault divorce on grounds of adultery. I have the proof. If we go that route, I will pay more in legal fees but no alimony, so less overall. [/quote]
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