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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He is right. It is his. Sounds like he was pretty deliberate and smart about knowing this and never used the money jointly. It's not yours and frankly I think it's selfish of people to believe that HIS inheritance from HIS family belongs to you. [/quote]. Dear OP - I was in this situation but I was the DW with the inheritance. STBX refused to cooperate on custody, fought for every dollar and made my life hell for 3 years until I just gave him the money to get him away from me (after 24 years together). I wondered why he was buying new clothes and taking expensive trips then he told me he wanted half of everything ...you could go this route. If you are up for being a real jerk.[/quote] +1. Did I write this in my sleep or were we married to the same man? STBX after 21 years decided that because I inherited some money this completely let him off the hook for any child support out of his GS-14 salary. He took lots of vacations instead. My lawyer wrote a blistering letter about how he was still financially responsible for his kids. Then I filed for child support and was generally a lot tougher on him in the negotiations than I might have been if he hadn't been such s selfish jerk. OP, your Ex is being a stand-up guy. You should stop being greedy and be a stand up woman. FWIW, your kids will benefit from his inheritance and probably eventually inherit some of it, and that seems fair enough.[/quote]
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