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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What were the signs?

For me, he wasn't like anyone else I knew. He arranged for a $200 loan from the bank when he was 14. Bought a lawn mower and mowed enough lawns to buy a car at 16. Paid his way through college with scholarships and work.

[b]And without fail, he made 3 calls each Sunday. One to his mom and one to each grandmother.[/quote][/b]
Wow that is a red flag[/quote]

In what planet?[/quote]

I think thread' like these are interesting because they highlight what different people value in a relationship and how different the same action can be perceived by different people.

Perhaps, PP sees this as a redflag because it  might mean the man has difficulty  putting boundaries in place with his mother, and that his wife  would always play second fiddle to mom.

Personally, I would find the phone calls sweet assuming there weren't other behaviors pointing to him lacking boundaries.

On the other hand, a pp mentioned her boyfriend did her laundry for her I would have considered that a red flag for a man with controlling, OCD tendencies BTDT, but that is me.

What works for one doesn't work for another.[/quote]

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