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[quote=Anonymous]I would dump her.

I have never ever heard of a relationship being fixed. All that gets fixed are appearances for family and maybe friends. Your spouse has a fundamental misconception of the nature and role of loyalty. As you are not children, there is no possibility to have any emotional learning, your brains are past that point, you are both way too old. Your spouse does not "get" loyalty and while she may overcome this temptation now, she won't overcome the next one or the one after. It's just a matter of time. Your spouse is keeping it out in the open because this is the best way to manipulate you so she can have her cake and eat it too.

You would be much better of if she had one off sex with a stranger while remaining loyal to you. Sex is trivial. Emotions are heavy stuff. They obviously like each other.

Also, don't get manipulated into seeing marriage counselors: they are a greedy bunch who know from their own experiences that the only fix is when one person swallows their pride and lives on in inner misery provided the other one accepts to put up with the ugliness. But they take your money and tell you BS. What they don't tell you is their success rate (practically zero, i.e worse than random).

You got one life, there will be no reruns showing. Be smart.[/quote]

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