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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you mean? An attraction? Flirty friendship? Texts and emails exchanged?[/quote]

OP here:  She's starting to talk about a coworker every day.  I know him - he's a tall, built, good looking guy.  I noticed that they have quite a few texts going back and forth with lots of jokes about work and have lunch together multiple times a week.  We have lunch together about once every two weeks.  The texts haven't crossed the line but lots of jokes and rainbows, unicorns, funny memes that I sent her, etc.

We have a good marriage if not always exciting.[/quote]

Make your marriage exciting. Flirting with a good looking guy is exciting, so you need to be more exciting than him. [/quote]

OP here - a 15 year marriage with kids can't compete (excitement - wise) with flirting with a good looking new guy.  I'm just going to be direct and make sure she's clear how I feel about her and what's at stake.[/quote]

Sure it can. I'd rather have excitement from my DH than some new hot thing. It just takes some effort. [/quote]

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