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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you mean? An attraction? Flirty friendship? Texts and emails exchanged?[/quote]

OP here:  She's starting to talk about a coworker every day.  I know him - he's a tall, built, good looking guy.  I noticed that they have quite a few texts going back and forth with lots of jokes about work and have lunch together multiple times a week.  We have lunch together about once every two weeks.  The texts haven't crossed the line but lots of jokes and rainbows, unicorns, funny memes that I sent her, etc.

We have a good marriage if not always exciting.[/quote]

Tell her you are uncomfortable now before you hold it all in and build a wall of tension.[/quote]

Yes, tell her you are a little uncomfortable. But under no circumstances should you accuse her of anything.

--Start working on your emotional connection with her. 
--DON'T start in the bedroom. Don't ignore it, but don't start there.
--Start on more weekly/bi-weekly dates (YOU organize the sitter! YOU do the legwork!). 
--Make sure you talk with her about something other than children and work every day. 
--Look her in the eyes with love and lust
--Plan a weekend getaway (again, YOU do the work! It doesn't have to be a surprise, but don't put the work on her. Get her input, you call the venue).
--Have you read the 5-love languages? Read it with her, or take the quiz online and send her the results and ask her to take the quiz, too. Do what it is she needs (NEEDS) to feel loved and special. 
--Send her a flirty text. Give her a gift. [/quote]

This is a good list.  Thanks for sharing.  [/quote]

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