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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you located close enough to your XW and the kids' school to take them sometimes during the school week?  If you are, then offer to take one or both kids for a week at a time instead of a weekend and see if she just needs a break.  Even if she only gets a break once or twice a year, it may reduce her stress enough that she can get back to an even keel when parenting.  Sometimes we all just need a break.[/quote]

I think this is absolute, utter bullshit. If the genders were reversed in this situation everyone would be screaming to high heaven that the husband is abusive. People would be crowing about getting the children out of this situation NOW. But because it's a woman (and I'm a woman by the way) people are like "oh she just needs a break." No. She is abusive and manipulative. She does not deserve custody. She doesn't deserve anything, in my opinion, acting and using the situation this way. I'm sorry I don't really have advice. I do think you should have custody but if you don't have the means to pursue it, I don't know what to tell you. [/quote]

I think people are reacting that way because OP already said he can't afford to go back to court in order to change the custody order. It is possible that giving her a break will provide a buffer and help his wife's mental health, which is better than nothing.

But I agree (and already posted as such), that he should do whatever he can in order to change the custody situation. His kids need him to step up.

Is there a resource that might help him, financially, considering the kids are in a toxic environment?[/quote]

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