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[quote=Anonymous]She cannot trust you.

For women, sex is wrapped up in a few complicated gears that all work together. It's this combination of physical-emotional-hormonal barriers that fall down when you can trust someone. The physical because technically you are bigger and stronger than she is. The emotional because that's what gets her over the physical barrier. And the hormonal because that's what automatically happens in her body when positive feelings can exist (and it ties the physical and emotional trust together). And the hormonal (the oxytocin, and specifically the oxytocin tied to YOU) is more present when it has recently been active, and again specifically with you.

I had 100% complete trust in DH for a long time. We did it more, because there weren't as many barriers. He did a couple of things to break my full confidence in him. Since then, it's just a little harder for me to 'get there.' I recognize the inner workings. And that I do trust him now. So I work on that oxytocin, and making sure it's 'used' frequently enough to keep on rolling. [/quote]

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