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[quote=Anonymous]Keep a journal, OP. That's the only way to keep track of reality with some people. There are a few types of people who live in their own version of reality, and they are a nightmare to deal with, because they make you feel crazy when they're the ones with the issues. People who are leading double lives, like addicts and cheaters, will also lie a lot to keep you off balance, so you never really know what they're doing and you're never sure what is real.

Why do you sound as if you're living separate lives? He doesn't tell you his weekend plans? How do you coordinate and do things together? He makes plans alone with your daughter without telling or including you? Why wouldn't he tell you, even more so if you'd been discussing which performers were inappropriate. That's a consensus parenting decision.

Your situation is creepy, because, for whatever reason, he's trying to keep you off balance. Document it. I have dealt with someone who was always lying and insisting on different stories, keeping a lot vague, and I kept my sanity by keeping a journal and by having a good memory. [/quote]

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