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[quote=Anonymous]Hi everyone the 15k got me only a 2 year protective order which he's appealing

A temporary custody order in place

A temporary child support/mortgage contributions (he's been unemployed for 2 yrs not paid or contributed 1 penny for 1.5 year)

1 week after he agreed to bring mortgage current, received foreclosure notice

He's been fired from every job the entire length of our marriage with a dual Masters Degree

If anyone has ever experienced the wrath and harrowing vengeance of a man suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder you could trully relate to my sheer utter hell on earth.

The pathological lies, the financial devastation, you name it he's done it to me and my child.  I have learned throughout my ordeal attorneys are there to make $, Commonwealth of VA does not recognize or care about my child having witnessed her father physically and verbally abuse me.  Thus my child is not covered on the protective order.

Dealing with a Narcissist with the Legal System is the most harrowing experience, not to mention he's former Law enforcement, attended Law School for 2 semesters.  In hindsight no doubt he planned his strategy more than 2 years ago and trapped me in one of the most "parental rights" vs "child's rights" in the US

Please understand I'm not stupid and didn't ever take my marriage sacrament lightly thus I endured for over 15 years.  He filed for divorce and has done anything and everything to delay, extend, and rack up attorney fees with anything and everything.  I am his target, I genuinely am in constant fear of my safety and my child's.  Narcissists use the child as a pawn.  I have contacted organizations that support advocacy however there's little to nothing in terms of legal representation.

Thank you for those of you who genuinely care and tried to point me to resources, for those of you that continue to judge/respond with such harshness please consider looking at the Domestic Violence wheel and know that I'm literally dealing with such utter anxiety/distress as a result.  I do not want to continue to be a victim and doing everything I can to get out of this mess and move forward.

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