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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would absolutely take the pipe and give it a day or two to see if he brings it up. If he brings it up you have the tough conversation. If he doesn't you present him with what you found and have the tough conversation. He'll likely tell you that it's someone else's or that it was given to him as a gift. Decide how you will handle that explanation. [/quote] OP here- I believe in a more straight-forward approach. [b]I will go home early today to try to see him before he goes out. [/b] I really appreciate everyone's input. With my second child I expect this. But with this child - this is really a shock. And I really do wonder if it's a mistake or something. He is such an over achiever, fitness god, eye-contact communicator- i mean, he is always the one to ask "is everything ok?" if he sees I might be steaming about something... I will write again tomorrow to let you all know what happens. thanks again DCUM[/quote] Again, YOU ARE THE MOM! You text him right now and tell him to go home straight from school and wait there until you get home! You shouldn't have to wait for a window to talk to your kid.[/quote]
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