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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you really dislike where you are now, you should move now, before the kids get to middle school and high school.

You don't want to spend all these years in a place you dislike, if you have the means to move now and to make it work for everyone. The kids will adjust better than you'd think at this age.

I've moved around all my life, living all over the world, all over this country, so I'm very adaptable, but one thing I've learned is that if I disliked a place, it never got better with time. Another thing I learned is that it's pretty horrible to move during high school.[/quote]

Thank you for this.  Gives me a lot to think about.[/quote]

Sounds like moving soon is best for your family long term. Even if you are both committed to living happily apart, you will get lonely and one of you will get too lonely and break up or find someone new. This will be worst than the effect of a move now. Give your kid some credit. They will adjust. They will adjust better to this than to parents who are apart or divorced. [/quote]

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