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[quote=Anonymous][quote=ThatBetch]I'm with the PP(s?) who said you sound jealous. She's been through a lot, she's worked hard to reclaim her body, and she's enjoying the results. [b]Her life is all about her right now, and that's probably healthier than you seem to think. [/b]I'm sure you've been "obsessed" for a time with something important to you, or something that made you feel good, right? Maybe a bit myopic about Thing You Were Into? This sounds pretty human to me. I think it's fair to call your friend out for scheduling a date with some new guy *while she was out with you*, because that's messed up. You're well within your rights to tell her that you'd prefer she be present with you when you're with her. I think the rest of your judgments are inappropriate. You should keep that to yourself, and possibly spend some time considering what the roots of your frustrations really are (which is the proper application of that "self-awareness" bit you mentioned). [/quote] OP here. If being totally fixated on yourself and no one else is considered healthy, I don't want to be it. I find self-absorption one of the most off-putting traits there is. It has nothing to do with jealousy. I have always found this trait hideous in people. It is possible to be beautiful and not obsessed with your appearance and everyone after you. I have many gorgeous friends that are not totally self-absorbed. They may take time to look good but they have other interests and conversations beyond themselves. If taking constant selfies, looking at your reflection in every window/mirror you pass by, primping for hours, talking about yourself and all the men after you, texting men and sending selfies every couple minutes while you're out to eat with others, and not being able to engage in much conversation other than yourself is normal to you, than you may be a shallow person as well. [/quote]
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