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[quote=Anonymous]I've been reading DCUM for maybe 4 years now. Mostly when I'm bored. I've posted a handful of topics/ questions, usually about a new relationship or long term boyfriend. 
From what I've posted, I've gotten great advice, interesting perspectives, and definitely harsh criticisms/ judgements/ words.  At first it was hard hearing the harsh/ direct opinions, but once I got used to DCUM I realized I just needed to weed through the replies -- but it WAS helpful to hear them, still.

Reading others issues, though.... It does make you a little jaded and sometimes insecure. I feel like I've learned SO much though. Mostly from hearing people's viewpoints on equality in the marriage, roles within the home, what marriage and partnership actually means, and the selflessness and humbling nature of actually being someone's partner. It's not always 50/50 and there's a lot of give and take.  I've been told by my current boyfriend that I have a much better understanding and mature mindset on relationships than most people's he's met. I honestly think it's from reading the relationship section here - it's like a 'what not to do'. [/quote]

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