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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Flybynight]I've noticed a lot of references to APs in the threads.  Just curious what motivated your decision?  Did you pursue the AP, or did they pursue you?   A friend recently admitted to me that he has an AP, but  also says that he is perfectly happy every area of his relationship with his husband?  I find this odd.  I can understand if there were problems or sexual incompatibility.[/quote]

I flung open the door, and he walked through it.

I was not perfectly happy in every area of my relationship with my husband, although you would not have been able to tell that from the outside. I am more so now, interestingly. I am having very regular sex at home (AP says he is not, but knows that I am).  I miss him when I don't see him, which is most of the time.

Why I have an AP: I think it started because I was so unhappy at home in my marriage. But it has continued because I like the sex. I like the emotional intimacy. I like his laugh, his toes, his outlook on life. I like that we share no responsibilities together.  I like the chemical high I get from it. I know it can't last much longer, but in the meantime it is sweet.[/quote]

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