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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]50% time is better for your daughter than 0 time with you. Leave.

[b]You didn't say why your relationship is terrible, but if it's abusive the depression won't get better until the abuser is gone from (most of) your life. [/b]

Don't give up, call a therapist. Also the hotlines below if you can't.

Suicide hotline: 800-273-8255

Domestic violence hotline: http://www.thehotline.org 800-799-7233

Please call and talk to someone. The people on the other end of these hotlines care, and are there to listen and help. 
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This.  I was you on April 8, 2014.  I thought it would be easier for the kids if there was one quick blow than the trauma of the divorce.  And the thing is on any other day I knew better.  My plan was foiled and, 2.5 years later, I am divorced and am now dating a very nice man and so much happier.  The divorce was not as bad as I feared.  Luckily, you are not even married yet.  I promise you, from one who has been there, it will get better.  You need more meds and to get as much help from friends and family as you can.  And I know, I know, I know you may not want to go check yourself in, but honestly, going to the ER may save you some of the months where I floundered silently.  Please think about it.[/quote]

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