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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DD is 13 and needs stuff that her mother is not getting her.[b] My rule has always been that I won't buy DD anything unless I see it first. How do I do this with bras and underwear.[/b] She spent the summer with her grandparents and oddly came home with only 5 pairs of underwear. I asked DD if she wanted a female friend of mine (not a girlfriend) to come with us tor to take DD just the two of them but she said no. Based on how DD will get wrong pants and shirts fitting I have no confidence in her getting these right on fit without adult input. [/quote] Sorry, OP, but your rule is bullshit and it's time for it to go out the window. In no way is it okay for you to see what undergarments your DD is buying. Of course she is uncomfortable with you having anything to do with this process if she knows what your rule is because what girl wants her dad to know what her bras and undies look like? WTF is wrong with you? Either contact one of her BFF's moms and ask them to do a group shopping trip or take her to somewhere like Nordstrom, leave her in the hands of a qualified sales associate, then LEAVE. You are also NOT to review the pieces one by one before paying. Give your daughter a limit (10 undies, 4 bras, or whatever) and let the sales associate know the limit. Once they are done, your DD can call you, you can pay, and it's over. [/quote]
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