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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: thanks all. [b] It honestly never occurred to me that the breakup of an AP could have triggered his sudden desire for a divorce.......[/b]

We were having fairly regular sex the whole time over the time leading up to his divorce threats (like, twice a week or so)..... I've never denied him sex although in the past he's said he'd like more of it or that we weren't having enough of it (although sometimes when I tried to initiate he pushed me away).....

What are other clues I should be looking out for if there was an affair?

I've been tested for STDs (for regular annual) and am free of them.....[/quote]

No. You have it backwards. The AP triggered him ASKING for the divorce. He had a fancy notion she was going to divorce and he was too and they would live happily ever after. Your update that her husband contacted you makes it pretty clear he found out, so she ended the affair, and with no AP to run off into the sunset with, you DH decided he was just going to stick around after all.

I can't believe this wasn't totally obvious to you or that you believed him that some strange psycho man just found you out of the clear blue sky to lie about his wife having an affair with your husband. [/quote]

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