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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with everyone else. His behavior is so typical of someone having an affair and then having it end. As to whether you want to get to the bottom of it, I think that depends on what you want. If he was cheating, would you kick him to the curb, or would you want to reconcile? If you would leave, then by all means bring it up. Ask him straight out. If you'd rather reconcile, keep going to therapy and building your relationship up. Talk about your concerns there, in a setting where you can get some closure. I know people who have been in your position and for them, it seemed easier to focus on how to get to a good place rather than focusing on who did what to damage the relationship. [/quote]

Thanks I want to keep the marriage together -- so it sounds like I should do therapy -- agree I need some closure on all of this. Ugh.[/quote]

It's unlikely your husband will admit to it, especially given the lack of hard evidence you have.  Also, I ain't think PPs were suggesting it was the breakup with his AP that caused him to want a divorce; [b]rather he wanted a divorce while he was with AP and things were going well, and when they broke up he stopped the divorce talk because he then lacked the motivation that comes with other options[/b].[/quote]

Yep.

You are your husband's second choice, OP.[/quote]

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