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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, heading to emerg to be with him, making eye appointments, being so involved... Are you just upset that you're in the friend zone? Why aren't you two together? [/quote]

+1.  The only person in this scenerio who seems to be getting jerked around here is OP.  [/quote]

I want to see him married and happy but he makes the worst decision about women. He will be walking up on his 3rd marriage this time around. I want him to do it right and be the last marriage. I am not being jerked around if you look at me as a sister. I am doing what you would do for your little brother.[/quote]

It doesn't sound like your friend needs to get married again. It sounds like he needs to be a parent who can deal with his child being ill in the middle of the night without calling an older woman to come bail him out. [/quote]

I agree with you. He should be able to handle this. His first wife died very young so hospitals kinda freak him out so I get him needing someone there. It just should have been the girlfriend. I don't mind helping but what is the point of her?[/quote]

You mentioned that she lives 4 hours away and has a child of her own. The "point of her" is that he loves her. Her not driving up to help him in the hospital is not unreasonable. I would actually consider it irresponsible for her to drive up in the middle of the night with her young child. You sound like you really just don't like her. Have you ever met her?[/quote]

Here is the thing. I haven't met her and have actually been pretty happy with the relationship except for things like this. He is thinking of purposing to her and they have discussed it so I think that maybe she would make him and his child a priority, not over her child, but at least a second priority. She has family that she lives with the could take her son, best friend really close. Lots of support system around her so that should could go and support him. Never assumed she would drag her child out in middle of night but she could have come on her own and chose not to.[/quote]

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