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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. I think I am taking a lot of anger out on my MIL by shutting her out. I am also trying to send up a red flare, and hope that my behavior will cause her to ask DH and then he will tell her why. Then I get the disclosure I want. But the real result is that I'm punishing myself, but worsening a relationship that i previously enjoyed and want to enjoy in the future. AND she is not taking answering the flare b/c she is trying to do her best to stay out. she just knows we've "had a rough year." People raise a lot of good points here. This is helpful. I agree maybe I'll never be satisfied. And that sucks. I worry that if I am really responsible for full forgiveness within myself then I just dont know how to get there. I also agree that acknowledgement is the first step to cleaning it up. and not acknowledging is brushing under the rug. So why can't I have this acknowledgement??[/quote]
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