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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]IF my spouse cheated AND we decided to reconcile, I would not need him to disclose his cheating to anyone other than our therapist. I think I actually[b] would feel worse emotionally if our loved ones knew[/b]. Full disclosure: my first husband had an EA. It was not directly related to our divorce. He never told his family directly, but introduced her to his family after our divorce. They filled in the blanks on their own.[/quote] YES! because your goal would be to fix it and move on. OP doesn't really want to fix the situation. She wants his family to punish him and take her side so that she can be the "good" one and he can be the "bad" one. She wants him shamed. She doesn't want to fix the situation. [/quote]
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