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[quote=Anonymous]Op here. I know it was selfish of me and I am not here trying to justify or defend my actions. I know I hurt DW, destroyed her trust by hiding the conversations, turned some energy to someone else. I already removed all ways of communicating with the ex immediately and she can look at whatever my accounts she wants. This was a one time thing with the flirting and I wish I didn't allow myself to become vulnerable to it.

I had to convince her to go to counseling as she refused for weeks determined to handle her emotions herself. She knows how she feels, but thinks I don't truly love her. This she wants a divorce.

I know the first six months was tough and I'm not complaining about that. I tried to support her by taking the night shifts/early am, preparing/cleaning the bottles, diaper duty, preparing meals. I did let her know that I appreciated her and that she was a good mother. I just should have communicated how I felt about things instead of escaping to this distraction.

She is the one imposing the time limits, not me. I've been Patient with her and answered all her questions openly and honestly. I screwed up and feel terrible. Thus I am trying to make amends so that she isn't so quick to pull the trigger to get out.

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