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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wish I had a great answer for you. You can't bring a horse to water.

Best I can think of is having a serious sit down conversation about your wants/needs. In no uncertain terms describe how your need for sex is like water to you. Hopefully, he will see it as s sign to step up his game. These things can be tricky. Something has to give before you find your eyes wander and seeking the attention your missing at home. Best of luck to you.[/quote]

OP here.  I am having a hard time with planning a serious conversation - I can only imagine that making things worse - I don't want him to feel inadequate which in turns leads to even less intimacy.  Any tips for how to go about doing this without him feeling like he is under pressure.[/quote]

You're right, it is possible the situation gets worse at first. The conversation has to be had at some point or the only way is down anyway. You can continue on with status quo, decide to scratch the itch elsewhere, or be pro active about your needs. Chances are, he's already under pressure and it's making it hard for him to perform. BTDT.

I wouldn't jump to fantasies and role play just yet. Start slowly unraveling the feelings on both sides. Do things to reconnect that are not about sex: sports, the beach, hobbies, take a date night. Take your time reconnecting and wiping out hard feelings it you may grow to resent him and vice versa. I wish I had taken my own advice. GL[/quote]

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