Reply to DW [Desperate Wife] wanting more intimacy from my DH

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "DW [Desperate Wife] wanting more intimacy from my DH"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wish I had a great answer for you. You can't bring a horse to water.

Best I can think of is having a serious sit down conversation about your wants/needs. In no uncertain terms describe how your need for sex is like water to you. Hopefully, he will see it as s sign to step up his game. These things can be tricky. Something has to give before you find your eyes wander and seeking the attention your missing at home. Best of luck to you.[/quote]

OP here.  I am having a hard time with planning a serious conversation - I can only imagine that making things worse - I don't want him to feel inadequate which in turns leads to even less intimacy.  Any tips for how to go about doing this without him feeling like he is under pressure.[/quote]

Well maybe you talk to him about doing rolling playing or something he wants to try. He gets to come up with something first, you go second. Keep it very open ended and no expections on what he wants to do. A lot of time one person's thing will not be the others but if you go in with a positive attitude hopefully the other will reciprocate with the same positive arritude when it's your turn. [/quote]

So the goal is to get him thinking about having sex with you. Sometimes things break down so much you have to start at the base and build up. So start on a Monday - what kind of rolling playing/stuff do you want to try this weekend...think about it. Wednesday - so what have you thought about doing?(hard case will need more talking- i.e. Oh I did not think of anything...your answer well let's think of some stuff now. Thursday get him thinking more about it- talk about what he likes about it. Friday- Saturday try it. So over the course of a week he is thinking about wanting to have sex with you. Baby steps. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics