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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First, he doesn't send 3500. I have two children and a mid-forties "C suite executive" ex husband who doesn't even pay that. A 22 year old wasn't sending 3500. He probably sends exactly nothing because he doesn't know a ballpark CS figure if he's throwing out $3500. I know another woman with 5 children and an ex who makes 500K+ and she receives less than that from her very generous ex spouse. I'd run far and fast. Nothing, and I mean nothing, demonstrates bad character than an absentee father. Please, please get yourself away from this man. [/quote] Lawyer here and it really depends on the state and the circumstances of the two parties. In some states, NY being an example, the NCP has to pay for daycare if the CP is in school. So, if the CP isn't working and the NCP is then the child support obligation for the NCP will be very high since the CP will be paying almost 0% of the daycare costs. If the NCP never petitions to modify the order they may continue to pay a very high amount that does not take into account the CP's salary upon graduating college or the reduction in daycare costs as the child ages.[/quote]
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