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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will be leaving my husband, who is same demographic as OP and who, I found out, has been seeing men on the side. He thinks I'm staying, but planning it so it I leave on my terms. [/quote]

I am in the process of doing the same.  He has signed a settlement giving me 60 percent of our assets, 70 percent of his income for the next 4 years, and 80 percent custody of our children.  His choice to lie and cheat is costing him dearly.[/quote]

Why would he agree to those terms?[/quote]

Because he is not interested in having a contested divorce where his boyfriend gets deposed and they both get to testify in front of a judge and all testimony becomes public record.  He wants to keep that reputation as the hetero family guy who just "grew apart" from his wife.  It is handing over the house to maintain continuity for the kids that causes the assets to skew.  It is the child support that causes the income over the next 4 years to skew and that amount is set by state formula, not I.  And the time with kids?  Well, he needs his time for his boyfriend it seems.[/quote]

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