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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm blown away by the negative comments towards OP.  She has been a SAH mom for 18 years.  Jobs don't grown on trees -- she's not going to jump into one.

She has been a SAH mom.  It's great that her husband is such an active and involved father, but that certainly doesn't diminish the years that she's spent raising four children.

There may have been some abuse along the way, and now OP has had it.  Counseling - absolutely.  But what the hell is wrong with you people?  Give her a break. [/quote]

Op is getting shit because she came in here admitting she has 4 kids, three of whom are older, for whom her husband does a LOT of the runaround stuff and yet she is just gob smacked that because of this and how she wants the divorce, she should move out and pay for an apartment. Yes it will lower her standard of living, that's divorce. She chose to have 4 kids and SAHM for 18 years and is now surprised that she can't request a divorce, stay in the house, work when and if it suits her and pays what she wants, and her DH can just deal.

Also, she was all fine to sit around for awhile to work on "training" to get a good job but when she got blowback suddenly he was abusive. Nah. People leaving abusive relationships lead up front that the relationship is abusive. Not toss in vague references to it when things aren't going their way. Being told to get a job and handle your kids' activities isn't emotional/verbal abuse. [/quote]

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