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Reply to "please tell me about living accommodations during separation--"sharing" your home and a rental?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, the best thing would be to move into a separate bedroom for right now, have him take over the major work of cooking, cleaning, hoping and caretaking and you look for a job. Once you get a job and he gets the routine and can rearrange work or make a plan for the kids, then one of you move out, and then find a way to share the kids/time. You realistically cannot keep the house financially without a lot of support from him. That would not leave enough for him to get his own place so the best thing may be for each of you to move out with 3 bedrooms and two kids sharing a room.[/quote] you saying sell the house and move into 2 3-bedroom? Is that feasible when she sounds like she wants him to go soon? If their house is anything like mine (2 teenage boys), at best it would take 30-60 days to get a house into market shape. It doesn't sound like she has that timeline in her mind. Maybe longer term, but for now she should focus smaller.[/quote]
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