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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your relationship is not done, but you do need to work harder to be kind and meet somewhere in the middle, OP. If you truly cannot handle the cheerleader fantasy, ask him for other ideas in a good-hearted effort to find one that appeals to you. [b]But, for the sake of your relationship, keep an open mind and don't tell him you find any of them repulsive[/b].[/quote]

I agree with this over the PP but I will say: if you do keep up the sex-shaming, [b]you will kill any trust and intimacy in your relationship, and that will be a mortal blow to the relationship overall...You only get a few whacks like that before you kill off any willingness on his part to be vulnerable to you by sharing his intimate desires[/b].  This is exactly like some man telling his wife she is fat and disgusting and then wondering why she won't have sex with him anymore.  [/quote]

Find a middle ground. There has got to be something you'll consent to: sexy doctor? Sexy construction worker? Sexy lion tamer? Sexy meter-maid? Sexy lunch-lady? Sexy police officer? Sexy super-hero? Sexy sanitation worker?  I know we can find something.

Though, Cheerleader seems like low on disgust-o-rama scale, for real, OP. You should give it a try before you flat out say NO.

Bravo to your husband for opening up to you. That wasn't easy. And  you punished him for it (see bolded from the smart PPs).

Sexy scuba-diver? Sexy football player? Sexy bartender? Sexy teacher? Sexy carpenter? Sexy plumber? Yeah, baby. [/quote]

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