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[quote=Birdmom5][quote=Anonymous]I feel like my relationship is floundering constantly. We fight every night almost and have spent the last 24 hours speaking only the bare minimum to one another like to prison inmates circling each other before a shanking.

I have cried no less than 8 times today. I don't know what is going on. He says I am micromanaging him, I say he is an asshole when he has less than 6 hours of sleep and takes everything I say automatically out of of context.

At the core, I feel done. I don't want to fight with him. But fuck him also. I am healing from giving birth, I'm sore, I'm tired, my body, time and mind have been taken over by feeding timebschdules. I want to scream and lose it on him but am just losing it.

Normal? Not for us. I'm at the end of my rope here. Tell me everyone else is fighting with their spouse. Tell me I'm not the only one. Tell me it is normal. I need to hear good news at the end of this planned pregnancy, this is what we wanted, you stayed up all night and played video games before the baby came so why are you sleepy now, asshole tunnel. [/quote]

IT IS NORMAL. Your not the only one!!  How old is baby?  It gets better but it takes work.  Communication is key!! Being able to have those conversations about how your feeling helps DH understand. I have been married 16 years now and the road was not always easy. But we choose to LOVE when we didn't quite feel like it! That's when life really starts happening because you decide to work and fight for the best thing ever and that's your marriage!  Hang in there! [/quote]

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