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[quote=Anonymous]Cheating. More to the point, if something is a problem for you and you have communicated that respectfully to your spouse, then it is up to him to respect your wishes. If it is a deal-breaker for him, then he needs to communicate that to you and then the two of you decide how to proceed. Anything secretive is a problem. My STBX had many, many secret "friendships" ... he kept them secret right from the beginning even though not a thing had transpired because he hoped that some small percentage might move to the next level. Not knowing with whom he might get lucky meant keeping them all secret. So even the most platonic inconsequential relationship, if kept secret, can be an indication of "grooming." Spouses don't need to be completely in each other's business, but they also don't need to purposely keep secrets.[/quote]
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